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By: Sheikh Yusuf
al-Qaradawi
From Book: The Lawful and the Prohibited in Islam

Marriage in Islam is a strong bond, a
binding contract, based on the intentions of both partners to live together
permanently in order to attain, as individuals, the benefit of the repose,
affection, and mercy which are mentioned in the Qur'an, as well as to attain
the social goal of the reproduction and perpetuation of the human species:
And Allah has made for our spouses of
your own nature, and from your spouses has made for you sons and grandsons... (Quran 16:72)
Now, in temporary marriage (known in Arabic
as mut'ah), which is contracted by the two parties to marry for a
specified period of time in exchange for a specified sum of money, the
above-mentioned purposes of marriage are not realized. While the Prophet (peace
be on him) permitted temporary marriage during journeys and military campaigns
before the Islamic legislative process was complete, he later forbade it and
made it forever haram.
The reason it was permitted in the beginning
was that the Muslims were passing through what might be called a period of
transition from jahiliyyah to Islam. Fornication was very common and
wide-spread among the pre-Islamic Arabs. After the advent of Islam, when they
were required to go on military expeditions, they were under great pressure as
a result of being absent from their wives for long periods of time. Among the
Believers were some who were strong in faith and others who were weak. The weak
ones feared that they would be tempted to commit adultery, a major sin and an
evil course, while the strong in faith, on the other hand, were ready to
castrate themselves, as stated by Ibn Mas'ud:
We were on an expedition with the Messenger
of Allah (peace be on him) and did not have our wives with us, so we asked
Allah's Messenger (peace be on him), 'Should we not castrate ourselves?' (The
reason for this request was the desire to maintain their purity of mind and
body, which was in danger of being affected by their unmet needs. (Trans.)) He
forbade us to do so but permitted us to contract marriage with a woman up to a
specified date, giving her a garment as a dower (mahr). (Reported by al-Bukhari
and Muslim.)
Thus temporary marriage provided a solution
to the dilemma in which both the weak and the strong found themselves. It was
also a step toward the final legalization of the complete marital life in which
the objectives of permanence, chastity, reproduction, love, and mercy, as well
as the widening of the circle of relationships through marriage ties were to be
realized.
We may recall that the Qur'an adopted a
gradual course in prohibiting intoxicants and usury, as these two evils were
widespread and deeply rooted in the jahili society. In the same manner' the
Prophet (peace be on him) adopted a course of gradualism in the matter of sex,
at first permitting temporary marriage as a step leading away from fornication
and adultery, and at the same time coming closer to the permanent marriage
relationship. He then prohibited it absolutely, as has been reported by 'Ali
and many other Companions. Muslim has reported this in his Sahih, mentioning
that al-Juhani was with the Prophet (peace be on him) at the conquest of Makkah
and that the Prophet (peace be on him) gave some Muslims permission to contract
temporary marriages. Al-Juhani said, "Before leaving Makkah the Messenger
of Allah(peace be on him) prohibited it." In another version of the hadith
we find the Prophet's own words, "Allah has made it haram until the Day
of Resurrection."
The question then remains-Is temporary
marriage (mut'ah) absolutely haram, like marriage to one's own mother or
daughter, or is it like the prohibition concerning the eating of pork or dead
meat, which becomes permissible under real necessity, the necessity in this
case being the fear of committing the sin of zina ?
The majority of the Companions held the
view that after the completion of the Islamic legislation, temporary marriage
was made absolutely haram. Ibn
'Abbas, however, held a different opinion, permitting it under necessity. A
person asked him about marrying women on a temporary basis and he permitted him
to do so. A servant of his then asked, "Is this not under hard conditions,
when women are few and the like?" and he replied, "Yes."
(Reported by al-Bukhari.) Later, however, when Ibn 'Abbas saw that people had
become lax and were engaging in temporary marriages without necessity, he
withdrew his ruling, reversing his opinion. (Zad al-Mi'ad,vol.4,p. 7. Bayhaqi
transmitted it and Muslim as well.)
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